@Tom_Kunsmanis right.
Have in mind that you will need to add these shared parameters to all beams FAMILIES in the project so Tag may work properly.
For example, in your shared parameters create two additional (instance) Length parameters:
BEAM_WIDTH
BEAM_HEIGHT
Add those parameters to your beam family and to your tag family.
In the beam family, just enter in the formula column, for example =H, and =W to assign it to the values you already have in the family.
Load everything into a non-critical project to test.
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