To potentially close this discussion loop, I have modeled two variants of an adaptive swept blend. Attaching them here for critique or use. One is based on a curve, the other on an ellipse. Both get me very close to what I want to do, but I still do not have the control I want. The lofting action between reference elements tends to want to smooth the curving too much, with the only remedy being to add more reference elements. This created other control issues which tended to get exponential.
For the moment I will stick with the simple extrusion + void ellipse extrusion solution. I may explore an option to make the blend a void and subtract it from the top of a solid. The form of the top of the wall is ultimately the form I am trying to create.
Below is a comparison. Extrusion + void is on the left. Adaptive swept blend is on the right.
Thanks for all the help. I still want the ability to grab and drag those swept blend vertices, though........