Sorry I cannot look at the family you posted because it is made in a newer version than the one I have. Anyway, I made a test, and even when the x-ray mode is on, I am able to select the reference point and see the offset parameter.
Maybe you didn't start by creating reference points and you don't really have points but just a vertex of the form? If you create 4 reference points first, then create 4 reference lines with "3d snap" activated, then Create Form, you should be able to select the reference points and see the offset parameter.
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