Hi Florian,
Yes, the increasing stress when the mesh is made finer is an indication of a singularity (especially if the high stress is confined to one element. If the stress were high in reality, it would occur in a volume, so more elements would be in that volume and have high stress as the mesh is made finer.)
There is no automatic way to remove the result from the stress analysis. In theory, you could edit the results and change the value, but then you would need to know what value to change it to, and then you would need to remember than you manually changed the results. It is better to change the scale of the legend and ignore the result at the singularity.
The same is true for the fatigue life. The life is low where the stress singularity is high, so change the legend scale and ignore the value.
The legend scale can be set by editing the contour ("Results > Options" on the ribbon) and changing the input on the Contour Options tab.
(Edit. FYI. The assembly file, .iam, is not sufficient to open the model. The part files, .ipt, are also needed to open a model.)
John Holtz, P.E. Global Product Support
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