but I don't want to cut between the lines I want to cut outside the lines/contours tracing the circle, the N the whole thing. I could do this with trace/contour however it would not give the nice sharp corners the engrave tool does.

this is it engraved selecting only the highlighted area as the engraving path the grey is the actual model and shows the bit is actually traveling into the intended model (and therefore cutting down its dimensions) when it cuts inside rather than around it.

this is the same part with another N that's offset from the N I'm using in the model. the highlighted section is where the actual model is. you'll notice it keeps the sharp corners where the lines meet AND the original dimensions I wanted the N to be at before the cut.

The highlighted area is the N in the dimensions I want, the black outline is the offset

a close-up of what I want the corner to do and have done by making an offset. the highlighted area is the inside of the N's dimensions

a still from the video showing his relief carving without needing to make an offset. you'll notice the dimensions of his model stay the same while still carving out the material around the N and T rather than inside of those dimensions.
all I want is to be able to use the engraving tool while maintaining the models specified dimensions AND getting those nice corners. to do this it just needs to calculate on the outside of the selected contours rather than the inside edge