Hi @Jim-Nolan,
Sure thing! Sorry I missed that part of your question.
No, this isn't a software limitation. Currently, the mirror command is designed to produce a true mirror of the component; where the mirrored part is side specific and therefore doesn't have the same geometry. However, there are cases like yours where the geometry is symmetrical and a mirror would work. Unfortunately though, mirroring still creates a new component rather than an instance. As a tip, you can tell the difference by looking at the component names in the model's browser. If all component names are followed by ":1", it's a good indication you have unique components rather than instances. Instances will have the same name followed by ":1", ":2", ":3", etc. This difference is critical when you then create a parts list in drawings. The parts list sees each component and itemises them accordingly. If multiple unique components exist; all components are followed by ":1", you'll get each component itemised separately with a quantity of 1. If multiple instances exist, you'll get each unique component itemised separately and a total quantity for instances of the same component. Hope that makes sense.
Copying and pasting (Ctrl+C and Ctrl+V) should have resulted in instances by default. Although there is an option to Paste New which does result in a new unique component rather than an instance. You'll see this by the new component's name changing to "Component(2):1", "Component(3):1", and so on for Paste New and "Component:2", "Component:3", and so on for Paste (Ctrl+V).
So how do you resolve this? I would suggest using either copy\paste (Ctrl+C and Ctrl+V) and then assembling using joints, or possibly using a pattern; either rectangular or circular (if a rotated 180 degree copy is needed). As an example, I've attached a crud examples of my work bench below. I've used circular and rectangular patterns to get around the same issue you have.
Hope this helps. Keep me posted on how you go with it.
Cheers, Andrew
Andrew de Leon
Experience Designer - Fusion 360
MacBook Pro (16-inch, 2019), OSX 10.15.7, in Sydney, Australia