Hi Thomas,
Sorry to hear you are having these difficulties. Not entirely sure what's going on, but here are some things you could try to fix it.
1) If the Forma panel is not visible for you, try turning it off and back on from the Window > Containers > Forma toggle:

If that doesn't help, you might have to use the "Reset" command in Rhino and select the "Restore default Window Layout" option. You can then try to open the Forma panel with the "Forma" command or with the Window > Containers > Forma toggle.

This should work the same way in Revit 2025 and Rhino.Inside.Revit 8, but for some reason, the latest release of Rhino.Inside.Revit doesn't let you dock any of the panels and forces you to minimize and maximize the Rhino sub-window before the panels update \o/

2) If you really need to use Forma from within Rhino.Inside.Revit, for Revit 2024, you will have to first install Rhino 7. You will then see this little pop-up that will allow you to load Rhino 7:

This is necessary because Rhino 8 had a big change in how it loads plugins. Therefore Forma can only work with Rhino 8 in Net.Core 7 (and above) mode, and Revit 2024 and below are not compatible with that mode. You can bypass this limitation by using Rhino 7 instead.

3) Both Rhino and Forma are evolving and changing rapidly. Forma gets a new feature almost every week and Rhino gets a new sub version release every month. It is likely there will be some issues from time to time, but we are doing our best to fix those 🙂