His solution works...
You must add a column to the Layer explorer and add "renderable" it then will show up a new icon and column near the "frozen" one... there a teapot icon will be showcased. This performs just like the hidden/unhidden objects and a single click there will avoid the light to get rendered mostly like if you would be manually turning it off.
Check this image you will find all info needed
Notice:
-Arnold Lights
-Red and Green lights set as Active
-Only Green set as renderable (and only greeen apears to be rendered)
This makes the procedure of "turning off lights" (actually no, it changes the renderable state but seems to do exactly the same) way easier with barelly a single click.