You have something much more complex than a wye. When it comes to more complex duct fittings, I usually start from scratch and categorize: duct fitting | type: multi-port so REVIT doesn't do anything funky with it.
I honestly don't think that I do have something much more complex than a wye, in fact possibly simpler than a wye. All I essentially want to do is have a connector, where one duct goes into the connector, and two come out, just like a wye, only no turns. You are proposing one fitting to take care of the entire area, whereas I just need this one fitting turning one duct into two, and the rest of the sections can be modelled using existing connectors such as elbows and straight ducts.
setting it up so that when you load it into a project and try to place it on a duct, the trunk size will match automatically, and the two branches will start off as totalling the size of the trunk.
I recommend you abandon this goal (as good as it may be). Create a standalone fitting where you manually connect the main duct into.
I don't think this goal is really that lofty, unless the fittings packaged with Revit are extremely difficult to construct. Tees and wyes that are already existing match to the duct you connect them to, and then you can change the width size of the 2 branches to fit your needs, which is all I would like this new custom fitting to do.
You have vertical ducts --- you should create connectors at top + bottom
I know I did not mention this in my previous post, but this fitting would be needed in multiple places, for both vertical ducts and horizontal ducts, which shouldn't matter, you can use the same fitting in both places. I'd prefer to create the fitting for a horizontal duct, and then just rotate it as necessary when placing it on a vertical duct.
I've included a very crude sketch, similar to the picture you posted, showing how you could use the fitting I am proposing in three different places, and then all of the rest could be modelled with elbows and straight duct. I tried to use similar colors to your model, and the grey planes would be the locations of my fitting. Again, please excuse how crude it is, I sketched it up in Paint, but I think it gets the idea across.

The red duct splits into red and yellow, the grey duct splits into blue and orange, and then the blue duct splits into blue and purple.
Tim Smith
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