I assume it's not possible from what I read in different places but I want to confirm that.
Can visibility of elements in annotation family can be controlled by a parameter so if the value of parameter is 1 then X is visible, 2 then Y is visible, for 3 Z is visible and so on. Basically have the elements' visibility set to on on specific value of the parameter.
I want this for marking fire rating of doors with separate annotation showing a filled circle. Doors themselves have parameter showing the value (ie 30, 60, 120) and filtering will color them but additional mark is needed - that's when annotation would kick in.