@RLY_15 and @mhiserZFHXS, @ToanDN has the closest thing to what I'm looking for really. But in truth it just the nature of projects. You are at the end, the data isn't ingrained in the various objects that you would otherwise interlink. And to go through the hassle of ingraining that data into those various objects would easily take four or five times as much time as is needed to just quickly populate up the data for a Schedule, or Note set, or any number of other things you may need. So rather than waste your time rebuilding families, working out kinks, and all that jazz, you are simply just better off manually filling it in and moving on. BIM is great and all, but sometimes it is just overkill for what is actually needing to be done. Not only is it overkill, but the time wasted in its implementation is not worth it to either you as the design professional, or to the client.
It's a matter of practicality, not everything needs to perfect BIM, and sometimes you just need a table to answer the question and it will take you an hour or two max to fill it out and get the sheet updated. But if you tried to do it in BIM, with the workflows you're talking about, you could easily spend several days trying to do just that. That may be in service to a BIM operators OCD, but it doesn't serve the contract, or the immediacy of the request for information.
I've put this in the Revit Ideas before. But it never got much traction. Revit would greatly benefit from the ability for one to have some basic WORD PROCESSING and SPREADSHEET capabilities. Sometimes you don't need a database, you just need the write a narrative, or make a table, or provide a bulleted punch list, and on and on and on. For example, I currently have a posted IDEA that is simply just pointing out that more graphical control of arrows and other basic graphic devices would go a long way to improving Revit's presentation abilities. Sometimes it is just that.
Data is nice and all, but if the end user isn't going to use that ingrained data, than it is simply a waste of effort to implement it. The end-use contractor in this case, will not benefit from a Revit BIM model, heck they more than likely don't even have the software to look at it. But they will benefit from a table telling them the information they need to do their job.