I am not sure if we can solve all problems in one go, let fix them one by one.
1. Make sure you choose the correct Revit engine version. Please check the report file line 59 and 60, it states that the addin file has issue at location 2,2, which you state that the bundle should use Revit 2025 engine with .Net 8 and later. Meanwhile, when I check the .dll file that you compiled, it use .Net Framework 4.8, which is for Revit 2024 and earlier.
2. I use Dotpeek to read the .dll file of yours and notice that you just use normal IExternalApplication and normal IExternalCommand, which are not suitable for DesignAutomation. You can donwload Nuget package for DesignAutmation, use the IExternalDBApplication for your app. Then, subscribe to "DesignAutomationBridge.DesignAutomationReadyEvent" event in your Startup event.
3. Try to open the Revit project and load the family inside the "DesignAutomationBridge.DesignAutomationReadyEvent" event and see if it works.
4. You might need to modify the "PackageContents.xml" file so that the bundle is loaded when the app is started. I do not remember the correct details at the moment, but I believe you can find sample file from tutorials online .
These are a few issues and solution I can think of right now.