Hi Antoine,
This one is tricky. iPart/iAssembly was designed to create library components (clearly defined and reusable). I guess the sheet metal part you are creating is more like one-off, right?
There is a way to make it work but it is not straight forward. Here is what you need to do.
1) You need to turn the iPart to custom iPart. Edit the table -> right-click on a column -> check Custom Parameter column. By doing so, the iPart factory becomes a custom iPart factory (the members are more like a regular derived part with a table).
2) For the etch sketch to show up in the iPart member, you will need to add an iMate (this is the weird part). Go to Manage -> Create iMate -> select the sketch to create an iMate.
3) Start a new assembly -> place a member of this custom iPart. You will see the sketch is visible in the folded part. But still not in the flat pattern.
4) Open the custom iPart member -> create yet another sketch on the same face -> project the etch lines from the sketch you carried over via iMate.
5) Right-click on the sketch -> Copy to Flat Pattern.
The etch sketch will appear in the flat pattern.
Many thanks!