Ok, so there are three solution to this, not requiring any updates from Autodesk:
1-Set up the grids manually, like in the image you show, just pull up Grid 22 so that it does not interfere with the others next to it. This is not a problem. Then use the 'Propagate Extents' button to align your grids in the same way for similar parallel views.
2-On large plans, site plans, you have two options
2a-Hide all the grids, except the corner ones
2b-Use a 2d annotation symbol for a grid bubble and use lines to draw fake 2D grid lines. Then save these as a group, pin it and propagate it onto other desired views. For us, this is only needed on 2-3 views per project.
Basically, we use to do 100% of work the stupid 2D fake way (AutoCAD), so I'm totally fine doing 1% of the work in this manner.