Hi,
Since others have already mentioned about uploading your files and the model issues
with moves and such I will just gently remind you again.
I have a couple of questions.
Do you actually REQUIRE a Male and Female mount and why?
Of the many things I have done in my life, being a volunteer Fire Fighter has been one of
them. In Australia, some of our States have different Water and Hydrant connections that
make traveling interstate to help out, which is sometimes necessary, we have to carry all
sorts of adapters on the truck. Some of these issues are purely traditional (we have always
done it that way syndrome) and others are a choice. This is when I came across something
called a Stortz coupling. It doesn't matter which end you hook up to as it is a universal fitting.
I was caught out on occasion rolling out a hose with a male fitting on the wrong end. Very
frustrating. No problem with a Stortz.

What I am suggesting is that in this case where you are simply joining hoses and there is
no real reason to separate them into male and female that designing a single coupling
would be better than trying to do two.
I get it if say it was a spacesuit where one pipe is water and the other oxygen and you
don't want to mix them up is a valid and indeed safer solution to change couplings to
male and female. Do you actually need that functionality here?
Why are you using lugs to join?
I think your simple lug connection will be too weak for purpose. I also think that there will
be insufficient friction to hold these two pipes together with 3 simple round lugs. I think a
much better solution, if you choose the male/female or Stortz style solution, would be to
use larger tabs. A greater surface area will create more friction to hold the connection
together, and overall it will be much stronger by spreading the forces along the axis of the
joint around the face of the connectors and not to three points.
Cheers
Andrew