An approach I use is to create featurelines for the edge of pavement for the parking lot an then drape the vertices on the existing ground. This gives you a starting point for the grading. Add the featurelines to a surface as breaklines and add slope labels to give you a feel for what needs to be done to make the parking lot slopes acceptable. You will then need to consider proposed building elevations, connections to existing roads etc. as constraints for your grading and work your way out from those.
Grading is an art that you learn from experience. There are many techniques and tools at your disposal but you need to know how they work and their limitations. There is a steep learning curve if you have to figure it out on your own. Unfortunately the user group is not able to provide adequate help for this. You really need someone who can walk you through your project step by step. There are lots of videos on YouTube and Autodesk University that cover these topics, but again it takes a lot of time to find them and view them.
There really are no shortcuts to getting your finished model unless you have someone to teach you step by step. Otherwise you will have to work your way through the process and learn as you go.
My approach has been to take my office projects home and work out the techniques by trial and error and doing research on my own time. Then when you go back to the office you are better equiped to move forward and be able to bill your time.
Neil Wilson (a.k.a. neilw)
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