Firstly, I am no fan of Alienware; I repaired MANY of them in a past life back in the early 2000s when they had no business making 'gaming' laptops (desktop replacements). My R10 is confusingly slow for its hardware and has the 'mix of corporate Dell with marketing department" case that boggles the mind. I have a bespoke system at home with virtually identical specs and it trounces it.
Anyhow, our current workstations are Lenovo Legion 5 Pro AMD 7745HX, 64GB, 1TB, 4050. As you mentioned, the overheating issues are significant and Intel's current generations of CPUs are VERY power inefficient comparatively ... a fact well exposed on thermally limited laptops. We don't much care about the portability, we just care about performance and connectivity. I have an affection toward Lenovo hardware; their management portal is refined and consistent, build quality is great, keyboards are nice, and connectivity is fantastic.
Ok, with that out of the way:
Trend has been something I wondered about. Connector works poorly at my house as well, but it's a LOT faster despite my terrible Internet, and it still fails with about the same rate as at work. I have been retiring old hardware at work (12+ year old Thinkpads) so I can do some resetting and testing before I install the AV. Would be nice if Autodesk put any effort into my case to determine this for me (why do they want verbose logs if they have no verbosity?) but whatever.
We recently had a "loss of array" on our main server and it has reminded everyone my chicken-little-esque warnings are founded in fact. Since I am not the infrastructure admin (I am an electrical consultant, I do day-to-day IT things only), these types of things are not managed by me. An Internet upgrade is on the short list, especially given its cheapness. The 500/500 office has about 25 users, so it's not being taxed.
It's really confusing why Autodesk doesn't just use the 8/3 filenames that NTFS maintains to circumvent all of this filename nonsense. Also, allowing files that don't conform to its standards (ends with a space? No problem, but we then can't access it, because whoever coded that part never got that far) is a confusing decision. However, I think the disconnect of the BIM system that assuredly runs some *nix that happily deals with everything gracefully, and Windows that is medium graceful if you have a litany of rules, and Connector that is basically just Dropbox that is somehow 900MB and has no ability to gracefully handle anything abnormal.
We have no real standards, and nobody really understands BIM ... this is kindof my pet project to develop all of this, because we don't really do 'consistency'. I don't think there's much to understand re: our general workflow though: I have a layout in ....\Dwgs\ called layout.dwg and it has 51 XREFs in .... \Dwgs\Xrefs\ . Copy all of that to BIM360 via Connector, wait 20 minutes for failures. No failures? Nice. Open the file and do work. Within a few days, something will not sync and that's basically the end of Connector ever working for you again unless you re-create everything.
Fair, most of our layouts are referencing 100+MB xrefs, but why does Connector care? Well, it definitely does.
What about just uploading a few thousand site visit photos in 100ish variously nested folders? Not a chance. 0% chance that succeeds. My test dataset is 100,000 files with 0 special characters that have 0 XREFs; JBOFiles ... I've been trying to upload the same files for ~3 months. Most are within the 8.3 file system because of their age.
Then there's you/your company, where somehow ~1,200 projects are successfully doing their thing and Connector is uploading and downloading like it's supposed to. And I can't get 1 project to work.
For our Connector issues, we are constantly told by Autodesk to update to the newest version or they'll just blame it on that. Once we update, it's radio silence until there's a new version. Rinse, repeat. Edit: v16.6.1 released :D.