Ok @irishman_team_kilber, message received. I've been self absorbed lately and I really should spend more time in here and I'll start doing that. I tend to post in bursts but if you @ mention me I'll always show up!
Hello @rodbrew2, Generally, I believe toolbar placement is in the UI folder located at: "C:\Users\%username%\AppData\Local\Autodesk\3dsMax\201X - 64bit\ENU\en-US\UI"
My Vray, Phoenix, Hairfarm, etc toolbars are listed in the file: MaxBackupUI.cuix, but interestingly my iToo plugins (which have docked toolbars) are not listed there. So there must be another place where they are stored. I see an .ini file in "C:\Users\%username%\AppData\Local\Autodesk\3dsMax\201X - 64bit\ENU\en-US\plugcfg" so perhaps some toolbars save details in there or a similar folder. For this reason, we might now want to discount permissions, perhaps one of those files is 'read only'.
If you run Max as admin, does it help? Are any of the files in that folder set to 'Read Only"? What OS are you using? It might be necessary to ask NextLimit exactly where it's stored and see if that file has permissions. RealFlow is one plugin I've never been able to afford so I don't know about its' inner workings.
Best Regards,
Alfred