I am trying to get Vault AEC 2013 to sync to my buzzsaw site.
I have downloaded the setupbuzzsawsync-64bit-en.exe from the buzzsaw website. It installed fine. When I set up a sync folder it works.
I don't see it appear anywhere in the vault collaboration client
That is correct. The tool is called Project Sync and should appear in your tools menu.
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