In the Revit original Revit file you show the Revit help file and discuss the oddity of placing a new window 'near' the old one. Have you tried copying the existing window to the clip board, demoing it, and then pasting inplace in the new construction phase? You should get e new winfow in exactly the same place. You can then swap it if necessary, if it is to be a different type of manufacturer. Just a thought. I have a BIG frustration with phasing, & demoing on projects with repedetive units that use groups for the repdetitive units. It is a nightmare to say the least.
Copying and pasting windows and doors, between phases for 1to1 replacement does not work. The reason is in the existing phase the windows and doors are hosted to the existing wall when they are corpied to the clipboard. When they are pasted back into the new phase in place, after the existing window and doors have been demo'd, they won't host to the resulting infill wall, they host to the overall existing wall that they were hosting to when they were copied to the clip board, leaving the infill wall passing through them. What I have come to, is for 1to1 replacement, it is much easier to add a project parameter for 1to1 replacement, and then use that parameter with filters, to have the same window display differently in demo, existing and new construction drawings. It eleminates a lot of work and headache.