Hello diosama,
I am unable to reproduce your problem. Could you please tell us the following:
1. At what point do you get the 3dsmax.exe error? Does Max UI open up and then crash?
2. When exactly do you get the initialization error? If Max does start, what do you see in the plug-in manager next fbxmaya.dul?
3. Can you give us the steps you do to get the problem? That we can have a better idea on how to duplicate your problem.
In the meantime, I would uninstall the plug-in you have and try again with a new install. You can find the plug-in here:
http://images.autodesk.com/adsk/files/fbx20122_3dsmax2010_win.exeRegards,
Carlos