with a little command call undefine. I undefine the xplode command and exhange it with the burst command in the hot keys. More times then not they never now the difference. About the only time you will get a question about it is on a pline.
I think if you make a lisp routine that uses the explode and have a box come up that asks if they are sure they want to do that and the amount of information that will be lost as a result may help as well.
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