Hello - I did a little looking and the only way I found for the wall pattern not to cover the column was to change the column family - I unchecked the Automatically joins geometry to walls. Image attached
Now this does prevent from it joining and will give you lines for the column even if you embed it in the wall - so this may not be the best option...
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