It would appear that none of the Editor.Select... methods with no user interaction will do this.
Most of the Editor.Get... methods have an overload to accept PromptEntityOptions or PromptSelectionOptions, but all require user input.
So you would have to either:
1) Progammatically Open the Xref file into the Editor and use the Editor.Select Methods
2) Open the Xref by objectid. Editor commands not available because the xref Database is not open in the editor, so you'd have to loop all the objects inside it looking for the things you want.
3) Prompt the User for the Selection using Editor.GetSelection, using your filter and PromptSelectionOptions set to Allow Subent Selection.
I am curious what would happen if you set the Options to ForceSubentitySelection, set your filter to (using my example) all BlockRefs named George, and window selected the whole drawing, or even just type 'all' at the selection prompt.
Dave O.