An update on my issue.... I is still going on.
I recently got a new laptop, Lenovo W530. i7-3820QM, 32Gb Ram, nvidia quatro K2000M, Running Windows 8 Pro 64bit.
I installed autocad just after setting up my new computer, before installing anything else, so I would know I did not have any corruption issues.
ACE immediatly had the same issue as before.
After getting plenty of suggestions but not many helping, there is one thing in particular that can help reduce the crashes.
Close each drawing before opening the next. Including the standard 'Drawing1' that is created when you first open ACE.
Hope this helps anyone else with the same issue.... I think we are going to switch to Solidworks Electrical soon.