I had the same problem with 2012 where PICKFIRST didn't fix the original issue. I had an exref drawing placed in my working drawing twice. When I detached the second iteration of the exref it fixed the layer control issue and then I just undid (CTRL-Z) until the exref was back and the layer control remained. For the time being it's my loop hole around the issue.
Hope that helps.
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